Wednesday, August 5, 2009

LANDO GIRL TO THE RESCUE!

Okay Rosanna, we've discussed your work and all that...once again, I stress that you DON'T overwork yourself...though I hope it'll soon all get better. Didn't you say that you don't have to work during the school? I guess that'll be over soon. At least you'll have the musical and parties and etc to look forward to. ;P

As fo Yeana...my my, you don't know how many times I've been in this situation! Hahah...like this one time, my best friend did something with a guy (nothing bad, really) at my party and she didn't tell any of our friends what she did. We had to find out from the BOY to really know what went down. FYI, the guy is our friend but we still don't like the way he treats girls...anyways. So we did have to confront her about it only to find out that the reason she didn't tell us was because she didn't want us to look down upon her! (Before, she knew we didn't approve of him, blah blah) I guess she was ashamed, so to speak, about the whole ordeal. So the situations kinda differ, but I think the main idea is still the same. I think your friend doesn't want to tell you what she's done because she knows you are a good girl who is not involved in that scene. And because she was not either, she feels that when she tells you, you won't want to talk to her anymore, or look at her differently. Idk, that's what it sounds like to me.
So if you really want to know what's been going on...talk to her! Just be like, "Sooo I heard some pretty crazy things went down in China!" jokingly or something. Appear that you're eager to hear what she has to say...but if she says something that you don't agree with, be gentle about it. "You know...I know you probably had lots of fun and stuff, but are you really into that stuff now? Idk, it just doesn't seem right..." Do you get what I'm saying?? Lol.
And if she doesn't say anything, just be like..."You know, you can tell me stuff! I mean, I'm not gonna judge you or whatever, hehe". Stuff like that.
IDFK if that even helped...ahahaha. And btw, what do you mean "former" best friend?

Anyways. I hope you feel less lonely. Though whenever you do, just call/text/whatever one of us. To be honest, I feel like this all the time (I have some friends with trust issues, and they don't understand that they can tell their best friends anything...if you get what i mean ;P). So it's okay. It'll all be better soon, trust me. Teenage girls just tend to have these moments.

Alright! Well it's been a busy week for me! Band band band. Lovely. Hahah. Umm and I'm finally getting some playing time for tennis in. Doing lots of summer hw and all that jazz...
Yeah. School's starting soon. UGH.

<3 WENDY

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